“Why wait to forgive and let go only after you have sufficiently wallowed in your despair? Why not forgive and let go now?”

Kamand Kojouri

“I became an artist because I wanted to be an active participant in the conversation about art.”

Kamand Kojouri

“To begin to know ourselves we must have sincere conversations with ourselves as if with a good friend. We must answer without reserve, listen without judgement, and accept without condition. That is self-love.”

Kamand Kojouri

“I cannot imagine how much I must’ve suffered in my previous lives to be fortunate enough to have parents like you in this life.”

Kamand Kojouri

“May we always be burdened with thinking of the suffering of others, for that is what it means to be human.”

Kamand Kojouri

“Speak to me: I will spend my lifetime to understand you.”

Kamand Kojouri

“I am looking for the one I can’t fool.”

Kamand Kojouri

“Always ask yourself: ‘What will happen if I say nothing?'”

Kamand Kojouri

“We start a relationship with someone not only because of how great they are but how great they make us feel. And because they have granted us this extraordinary gift—a chance to experience love, joy, compassion, and security —it is our exclusive privilege to make them feel wonderful about themselves, especially during days when they, themselves, don’t feel so wonderful.”

Kamand Kojouri

ISN’T IT STRANGE?

“Isn’t it strange
that in order to be happy
we have to disregard
all the sadness in the world?
That we have to overlook the ballooned
bellies of children, which are dark
and empty inside. That not too far
from our warm homes, the elderly sleep
on cardboard. That there are teenagers
trained to carry heavy rifles,
but their nightmares compel them
to aim the weapon
at themselves.
That there are battered dogs
with skin taut like a drum
and ribs jutting out—their eyes
so beautiful
it makes all the men cry.
Isn’t it strange that in order to be happy
we have to unremember
what we already know?
And yet,
maybe we aren’t meant
to pursue happiness
despite
all the sadness.
Maybe,
it’s a call for us
to help others instead.”

Kamand Kojouri