“I became an artist because I wanted to be an active participant in the conversation about art.”

Kamand Kojouri

“To begin to know ourselves we must have sincere conversations with ourselves as if with a good friend. We must answer without reserve, listen without judgement, and accept without condition. That is self-love.”

Kamand Kojouri

“I cannot imagine how much I must’ve suffered in my previous lives to be fortunate enough to have parents like you in this life.”

Kamand Kojouri

“May we always be burdened with thinking of the suffering of others, for that is what it means to be human.”

Kamand Kojouri

“Speak to me: I will spend my lifetime to understand you.”

Kamand Kojouri

“I am looking for the one I can’t fool.”

Kamand Kojouri

“Always ask yourself: ‘What will happen if I say nothing?'”

Kamand Kojouri

“We start a relationship with someone not only because of how great they are but how great they make us feel. And because they have granted us this extraordinary gift—a chance to experience love, joy, compassion, and security —it is our exclusive privilege to make them feel wonderful about themselves, especially during days when they, themselves, don’t feel so wonderful.”

Kamand Kojouri

ISN’T IT STRANGE?

“Isn’t it strange
that in order to be happy
we have to disregard
all the sadness in the world?
That we have to overlook the ballooned
bellies of children, which are dark
and empty inside. That not too far
from our warm homes, the elderly sleep
on cardboard. That there are teenagers
trained to carry heavy rifles,
but their nightmares compel them
to aim the weapon
at themselves.
That there are battered dogs
with skin taut like a drum
and ribs jutting out—their eyes
so beautiful
it makes all the men cry.
Isn’t it strange that in order to be happy
we have to unremember
what we already know?
And yet,
maybe we aren’t meant
to pursue happiness
despite
all the sadness.
Maybe,
it’s a call for us
to help others instead.”

Kamand Kojouri

EVERYTHING I HAVE BECOME

“Everything I have become,
everything I will ever accomplish
cannot compare to my most
impressive feat:
I have loved you
fiercely
and
assiduously
with the very marrow
inside my bones. So that when I die,
they can crack them to find
you there. So that when I die,
they can open me up
and see your name tattooed
on the wall of my heart.
So that when I die,
my epitaph will neither
commemorate
who I was
nor what I did,
but will read:
“She loved.
And loved. And
loved.”
And so,
I smile now,
because
that is no
small thing.”

Kamand Kojouri